Skillful Dating for Relationship Success

Single? Are you still making these Dating Mistakes?

2010-01-01T01:09:00Z

In a few hours, it will be 2010. Happy New Year

Are you ready to make it better than the previous years?

Any dating resolutions?

1. You still do not know how to choose your true lifetime lover who also finds you right to her/him? You still do not know how to confirm whether s/he is the right one for you?

2. You rush to fall in love, and cannot see the red flags that are in your face because you are already emotionally attached to her/him. Or you still believe that your love will change those unacceptable habits in the future?

3. You still do not know for sure what you are supposed to know before you fall in love? You are already emotionally attached and excited about the recent gifts, the new places to visit, and probably planning your wedding.

4. True, there is a lot of conflicting dating advice, and you do not know what to believe. However, you still do not know how to guard your heart from the wrong person, and you cannot confirm that you are dating and falling in love with the right man/woman?

5. 2009 is gone, and you still have not learned how-to use the Smart Lover's Risk Exit Strategy to protect your heart because you know you'll sign a prenup before wedlock? You still think that prenups are the best way to manage these dating risks and uncertainties?

2010 starts tomorrow. What are you waiting for?

I have good news for you.

You do not have to date or fall in love or marry the wrong person.

Reason?

It is all predictable.

If you could only listen to Abraham Lincoln's advice, "If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, i'd spend the first six hours sharpening the ax." Now think about this. You spent years and years learning how to read, write etc., why can't you sacrifice at least 2 days to learn how to choose your lifetime lover (and prevent such dating mistakes and future problems)? How about a whole day Dating Class? It is easy to learn this new dating skill.

Dating is in itself a life-shaping event. Please do not make it harder than it is supposed to be. Please learn this: There is a clear path that leads to a successful and lasting love relationship. There is even a new decision-making tool that helps you to foresee the future of your love relationship. This dating tool gives you instant feedback to avoid these dating mistakes, and a mismatch.

Best of all, all this missing wisdom and decision-making tools are all packaged in "The Dating Solution". More info is available at www.skillfuldating.com

For only $97, you can protect your heart, and get the tools and needed know-how to make quality dating decisions the first time. Please do not repeat these dating mistakes.

I wish you a Happy and Prosperous 2010.

Alex
#1 Dating Coach

P.S. 2010, Every Smart Single who has attended our Dating Classes pledges to make divorce and domestic violence plagues of the past. It is an easy skill to learn. It is all predictable.

A good Dating Coach - what you should know!

2009-12-30T14:04:00Z

There is a lot of confusion surrounding dating advice these days. Unfortunately, a lot of the popular dating advice is very misleading and only good for short term pleasure. I am sure you’ll agree that, it hurts to see young Singles dating and falling in love with the wrong people, and then breaking up again and again, ruining their quality of inner life.

In order to avoid relationship problems in the future, I want to give you 6 criteria you must ask for as you seek dating advice:

1: A good Dating Teacher should teach how to avoid these costly dating mistakes. S/he should teach you what you must know before you start dating, the 9 critical steps of dating and the importance of each step, how to make the right dating decisions the first time, and how to choose your true lifetime love from a large database of Singles, (and be right at the first attempt).

2: There are so many decisions to make in the dating process, and it is not smart to rely on your memory alone. Therefore, a good Dating Teacher should teach you how to use this new decision-making tool, "10 Step Smart Lover’s Model" to guide you to make quality dating decisions at every step of the dating process. This decision-making tool is very powerful; it helps you to see what the ordinary eyes cannot see, it reveals the critical indicators that need re-evaluation, and helps to confirm that you are ideal for each other. This is critical in today’s dating world, and a good Dating Teacher should teach you how to date skillfully.

3: A good Dating Teacher should teach you how to foresee and manage the risks and uncertainties in dating. Every person has a good side they display when they are dating, and you need the Smart Lover’s Risk Exit Strategy mindset to identify their unacceptable side before you become emotionally attached to them. Your Dating Teacher should teach you how to develop your dating risk control and risk tolerance zones, and teach you how to use the Smart Lover's Risk Exit Strategy Flow Chart. This decision-making tool helps you to prevent a mismatch with an impostor who is going to pretend to be the ideal one and later change to ruin your quality of love life.

4: A good Dating Teacher should teach you: - the 11 underlying root causes of marital failure – how to identify and avoid them using the Smart Lover’s Risk Exit Strategies, why people repeat these costly dating mistakes, the critical factors to evaluate whether you are on or off track to your dreamed destiny, the 11 things that people fear in dating and how to overcome them, the 10 most important things you must do before you start dating, the most important things to do on your 1st date, the most important things to do on your follow-up date, etc. A good dating teacher should teach this new dating skill to help you to make the right dating decisions the first time.

5: A good Dating Teacher should teach you the key secrets to matching, what to match, and how to match skillfully. She/He should teach you how to get total disclosure in the initial dating stages, how to tell whether the decision is from your inner person or outer person –because this is a key secret to dating success. She/He should teach you all this prerequisite base knowledge, to help you succeed in today’s dating world.

6. A good Dating Teacher should satisfy your need to know. She/he should bring all this wealth of dating and matching knowledge into focus for you, to enable you find your true love without first bruising your heart over and over. She/he should give you an insider’s grasp to enable you to get it right the first time.

Finally, your Dating Teacher needs to be aware of what is happening in today’s dating world, the new concepts, and the latest breakthroughs. And this is only a small sampling, but make sure that you get all the answers to your dating questions. If your Dating Teacher empowers you with this detailed dating knowledge, then without a doubt, she/he is on top and worth your money.

Best of all, you do not have to guess or rely on your memory alone; and you don’t have to waste your money and time dating and falling in love with the wrong people. If interested, details of this dating know-how are all packaged in the Smart Singles' Dating Guide available at, www.SkillfulDating.com

Close 2010 in style. Register for the Next Available Dating Class Scheduled on April 14th, 2010 in Chicago.

Every Modern Parent should Prepare/Empower their teen to Date Skillfully

2009-12-22T16:00:00Z

It’s no secret that teenagers today are under intense peer pressure to be dating or in a love relationship. Unfortunately, many have not been well guided, and some are already heartbroken, been pressured into sex, and stuck in abusive relationships. The results indicate that there is an increase in teen pregnancies, teen abortions, STD infection rates, teens running away from home, increase in alcohol and drug abuse, and the jealous teens that put up serious gun fights rather than lose a date.

Every parent knows that dating is an important first step in shaping one’s quality of life, but because of an old tradition, many parents will hesitate or never teach their children about dating and love relationships. Parents would rather do everything else for their teen sons and daughters but not talk about dating. It is hard to believe. Teen dating is not going to stop. So, rather than shy away from this topic to talk only about their teens’ books and talents, it may be better for parents to open up and teach their teens how to make the right dating decisions.

No matter what your opinion is, times have changed and so must we. After all, we know much more about dating than the teens, so why shouldn’t we teach them what we know? Why should we simply wait for the teens to figure out these complex dating puzzles and conflicting opinions?

Why don’t we (as a society, one family at a time) abandon this outdated tradition, and help these teens understand the truth, the myths, and to unveil the hidden risks involved in the process of dating? Isn’t it better parenting to prepare and empower them to avoid the pitfalls in dating, rather than wait for them to fall in trouble?

In the face of these dating challenges, I have studied and documented all the essential answers that one must-know about dating and matching. It is now easier than ever before, and I am appealing to every parent to teach your teenagers how to use the “10-Step Smart Lover’s Model”, and the “Smart Lover’s Exit Strategy Flow Chart” to enable them make the right dating decisions the first time, and to avoid these costly dating mistakes. .

This wealth of much-needed knowledge is in a new “The Dating Solution” available at http://shop.skillfuldating.com at a price of $42. It is so user-friendly and makes dating easier. It tells you step 1 do this, step 2 do this, step 3 do this, up to step 9, following the structured protocol of the dating process.

This Dating Solution will expand the teen’s dating knowledge. It will also make it easier for the parent to talk about dating and their unique compatibility features. Most importantly, this new Dating Solution helps the parents to prepare and empower their teens to avoid the pitfalls in today’s dating world. The teens are taught how to make the right decisions, how to unveil the myths and hidden risks in teen dating, and the consequences of each decision in the dating process.

To your Utmost Success,

Alex Mugume,
Dating Coach
Smart Spouse Publishers

P.S. Please join us on this mission to make divorce and domestic violence plagues of the past. More info about skillful dating is at, http://www.skillfuldating.com

Gift of Love to Singles in Chicago North

2007-12-12T19:02:00Z

Every Smart Single in Chicago North side is invited to attend this FREE Dating Class at Chicago Public Library, Edgewater Branch.

Here is what you’ll learn:

1. Discover the Key Secrets to Success in Dating and Matching.

2. Learn this clear path to a lasting and successful love relationship.

3. Learn how to use the "10-Step Smart Lover’s Model" to help you make quality dating decisions to find your True lifetime Love.

4. Learn how to foresee and avoid the risks and uncertainties in today’s dating world.—Learn how-to use the "Smart Lover’s Risk Exit Strategy Flow Chart" to prevent a mismatch.

5. Learn how to make Divorce and Domestic Violence plagues of the past! Yes, you’ll be empowered to foresee and avoid bad dating decisions. Breakthrough knowledge for the 21st century.

And best of all, it is all FREE. Learn how-to date & match skillfully.

This Dating Class is taught by one of our Local authors here in Chicago. Come & Invest in Your Future. Don’t miss out.

Wednesday, Dec 19th, 2007, from 6:30pm—8:30pm.

Chicago Public Library,

Edgewater Branch

1210 W. Elmdale Ave, Chicago

For more details, please visit, http://www.SkillfulDating.com

P.S. If you cannot make it to the Dating Class, then I will encourage you to reward yourself with "The Dating Solution" as your New Year's Gift of Love.

Remember this: Smart Singles do not rely on their memory alone.

A good Dating Teacher - Don't Compromise, get in-depth knowledge

2007-11-08T03:37:00Z

Dear Valued Friend,

There is a lot of confusion surrounding dating advice. Sadly, a lot of the POPULAR DATING ADVICE is FALSE, and some even VERY MISLEADING and likely to cause you relationship problems in the future. (Think about it: If the popular dating advice was truly good advice, divorce and DV would not be on the rise! A lot of the popular dating advice is only good for temporary success, - i.e., for one night stands and short term pleasure. Simply stated, I want to give you 6 criteria or elements you absolutely, must ask for as you seek dating advice:

1: A good Dating Teacher should teach you this new dating skill. S/he should teach you what you must know before you start dating, the 9 critical steps of dating, and how to make the right dating decisions the first time; how to choose your true lifetime lover from a large database of Singles and be right at the first attempt?

2: A good Dating Teacher should empower you with a decision-making tool because there are too many decisions to make, it's not smart to rely on your memory alone. Remember, there are so many decisions to make from Day One, and each decision at each stage has a consequence that affects the results of the next stage. With the Smart Lover's Model, it is very easy to see the bigger picture. There are many players out there, and you are likely to get mesmerized with the little things that don't count in the long term. This is critical and your dating teacher should teach you these incisive details.

3: A good Dating Teacher should teach you how to foresee and manage the risks in dating. Every person has a good side they display when they are dating, and you need the Smart Lover's Risk Exit Strategy mindset to identify these unacceptable risks before you become emotionally attached to them. Your Dating Teacher should teach you how to develop your dating risk control and risk tolerance zones, and teach you how to use the Smart Lover's Risk Exit Strategy Flow Chart.

4: A good Dating Teacher should enrich you with atleast over 40,000 years of other people's real-life experiences. She/He should teach you the 11 underlying root causes of marital failure, why people repeat the same mistakes in dating, the critical factors to evaluate whether you are on or off track to your dreamed destiny, the 11 things people fear in dating and how to overcome them, the 10 most important things you must do before you start dating, the most important things to do on your 1st date, on your follow-up date, how to get total disclosure, how to tell whether the decision is from your inner person or outer person, how to match, what to match, how to match successfully,etc. A good dating teacher should teach this incisive know-how to help you to make the right decisions the first time.

5: A good Dating Teacher should teach you all this prerequisite base knowledge, and then guide you all the way to success. Like in this case, this Dating Solution is so user-friendly and is designed to keep you ahead of the game. It is so detailed; it tells you Step 1 do this, Step 2 do this, Step 3 do this, up to Step 10. There is nothing like it on the market. It will save you from breaking your heart, but most importantly, bring you lifetime happiness. Best of all, you do not have to guess or rely on your memory alone.

6: A good Dating Teacher should satisfy your need to know. She/he should take you behind closed doors and give you an insider's grasp of this decision-making process - in dating and matching. Unfortunately, we are not many teachers that bring all this wealth of dating know-how and decision-making tools into focus for you.

Quality dating knoweldge and advice taken to new heights. Don't settle for less; get the enriching touch.
To your utmost success in 10 steps or less,

Alex Mugume
The Dating Teacher
Smart Spouse Publishers

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New Dating Skill on this Audio-Book

2007-10-23T00:50:00Z

Good News!

There is no time like the present. It is all on this audio book. This new decision-making tool, the 10-Step Smart Lover’s Model gives you instant feedback and guides you to make quality decisions to protect your heart from the wrong person, and to find your true love who also finds you true to her/him.

It is the only tool on the market that helps you to create a rich and fulfilling love relationship. It is user-friendly, and it will put your mind at ease. Don’t miss out on your rich and fulfilling love relationship. For a while now, the high divorce rates and daily domestic violence scenes had created a negative impact on our family values and society as a whole. This was affecting many people’s ability to love and trust. Many Singles had given up hope of ever finding their true love. But not anymore. It has been demystified.

Now for the first time, you have all the quality dating knowledge and advice that was missing. You can now find your true lifetime love, and not an impostor who will pretend to be the right one, and later ruin your quality of love life with a painful divorce, domestic violence case or a stressful relationship.

This audio program teaches you how to use the 10-Step Smart Lover’s Model as a new decision-making tool that empowers you to foresee the future, and prevent a mismatch before you fall in love with her/him. Today, you have no reason to fall in love with a wrong person. This powerful decision-making tool puts you in control to influence and create the future without unpleasant surprises.

This audio also teaches you how to foresee and manage the risks and uncertainties in dating and finding your true love. Using lessons from over 1,000 successful and unsuccessful people, you’ll learn how to make winning decisions that stand the test of time. This is an important decision, and now is the best time to listen to this audio-book titled, How to Choose Your True Lifetime Lover, by Alex Mugume.

CONTENTS

Track 1: Introduction and Personal Background

Track 2: Lessons from 280 Failed Marriages

Track 3: Lessons from 440 Successful Marriages, and Analysis

Track 4, Step #1: Self-Awareness and Preparation for Dating Success

Track 5, Step #2: Designing her/his Profile

Track 6, Step #3: Identifying and Proposing/Accepting your 1^st Date

Track 7, Step #4: Your First Date - (Making Quality Decisions)

Track 8, Step #5: To-Do-Lists on Follow-Up Dates

Track 9, Step #6: How to Talk & Evaluate Follow-Up Dates

Track 10, Step #7: Timing Factor (Last Checklist)

Track 11, Step #8: Engagement

Track 12, Step #9: Total Commitment, and why you should

Track 13, Step #10: The After Commitment Period.

For $24, (including taxes and shipping), you get this delivered to your door steps in 2 - 6 working days within the US. Click here to BUY NOW:

NOTE: You will need to make reference to the master book, 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage, Self-Help Secrets to Success in Love and Marriage. It is advisable to buy the whole package, The Dating Solution. (You save $10 if you order the whole package)

About the Author.
Alex Mugume is a Dating Teacher. He teaches Singles how to find their true husband or true wife - and get it right the first time. The last Dating Class is on Dec 8th, 2007. For more info, visit, http://www.SkillfulDating.com

Welcome!

2007-10-15T12:18:00Z

Dear Single Friend,

You are welcome to our blog. We hope you will come to visit often.

We will post important articles and ideas regarding today's dating world on a regular basis.

Your comments are welcome.

Enjoy your day.

Alex